So what does it take to have casual sex with someone, anyone? Well, I have absolutely no idea!!! Sometimes it happens, and sometimes it doesnt, and for sometime now it hasnt happened…LOL …my roomie thinks that a man has to be confident, give a “no-care” attitude and just has to be damn cocky but with an interesting coversation … i think my imagination of interesting conversations are politics, war, religion, etc and i bet if i ever go put to some lady at the bar and say ” soo ummm what do you think of that legislation being passed to reduce gun violence in the Bronx” …hmmm i think i would be lucky to get a smile and a walk away routine… So i guess it takes certain personalties to do this kind of stuff …walk into a bar, talk to some random lady there, make up some coversation and than well hopefully get laid …ME - well i think i am obsessed with the gal who is going to fall head over heals over me… happened twice… i was a stupid boy then and let it go both times like an ass …. well it were good lessons though …so what do i want now ..still the same thing …meet some random gal , start a conversation but hopefully i really like her …no seriously …sometimes i think i am really stupid but hopefully it works out my way …