Person A & Person B

Person A and Person B

This friend of mine from Bombay by the name of Shamik Banargee gave me one the greatest pieces of advice I have ever got and I have not even shared it with anyone. What a dam bastard I am? Anyways this is what he said and trust me this counts in everyday life!!! So Person A is communicating with Person B. Person B seems like he/she doesnt understand what the fuck Person A is saying. You get the norms that he/she doesnt understand or is not interested because you get the little smirks, no eye contact at all, they are fidgiting around, giving that “I dont know/care/understand” look. So whos fault is this??? Should person B be blamed?? Nope Person A… Why??? Well its person A who is trying to communicate right, so he/she should be able to explain or communicate what he/she is thinking using the simplest of words so that Person B can understand. If people just started rambling on their thoughts without considering whether the listener really understands, then there is no fucking point in communicating is there. So it is more important for the communicator to adjust to “noise” and make sure that the listener is getting the “information” that he/she is trying to project through a certain “channel” or “frequency”. Makes sense. …. If it doesnt, you know whos fault it is right???