How fast will we forget?
As the interrogations and investigations begin on the aftermath of the Mumbai tragic episodes of the past few days, I have a skeptical feeling that within the next few days – there is a high chance that these horrific scenes would vanish from peoples’ minds or simply become a distant memory of the past. Talking to a few colleagues and friends, they seem to disagree and remind me that “this time it is different” – “the bloggers let the world know what is going on”, “it was for 3 days – the terrorists’ siege on the city”, “the media exposed it to the world”, “we have new outlets of media”, “the world is watching”, “this is India’s 9/11″, “citizen journalism has taken this way beyond borders”, and “we are going to be tough from now on”. These are some of the frequent replies and statements that I seem to be receiving when I put my thought across. So maybe it is time we took a look at the past and see whether we see any differences from some of the tragedies that have taken place and whether we remember those tragedies everyday and whether we appreciate – what I think these days with all that is going on in the world – our privilege to live. The tsunami of South East Asia took hundreds of thousands of lives. These days I hardly hear anyone talk about it. Hundreds of people die in Iraq everyday – I hardly hear a whisper. A US soldier dies in Afghanistan – the media is more concerned whether Britney has left her house. Millions of people die of starvation everyday – does anyone care on a everyday basis? There was a clip on CNN IBN where you see people walking as if there was no time to waste in a crowded area. The video looked like it was filmed in a major city. There was an old man lying on the street – seemed like he was suffering from some heart attack – literally dying – and none of the bystanders or people passing by cared. What does this mean?
I think we as humans only need a small dosage of suffering from time to time to keep us grounded. We cannot afford to hear “bad news” everyday. Our own lives, our own problems and our own dilemmas take over and our priority becomes “I” rather than “WE”. It is a sad fact of human life, something that I doubt we can control. When a man is thrown out of his house, loses his job, has to feed his kids – I doubt he has time to look at the Mumbai tragedy or any other sad story of the day and reflect. So to answer my own question – How fast will we forget? Well I think it depends on how fast you want to and how fast another personal issue tries to perpetrate your world.
If we were to take a lesson out of the 9/11 that took place in New York – it is that maybe we can give the job of reminding us about such tragedies – to the media, certain commissions, an organization and other propaganda machines. As much as it sounds sarcastic it is in fact NOT. We need something to consistently and constantly remind us – and outsourcing this element of our lives might be helpful – thus creating that period or second everyday in your life – where after watching that commercial/infomercial or small documentary – you take time to reflect, appreciate, mourn and try to think about the families of those passed away and just hope that they wake up with a smile. Maybe for a second there you might have just thought about “WE” rather than “I” – and that is all that matters.
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